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Lucy SweetKill

I like how you phrased it – “Vigilance that I often carry through life.” I think through intentional physical pain, we can help break down that barrier we so often put up to get through life. It can be weight on our whole body and mind.

Im reminded of this quote:

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”

― Anais Nin

Hi Lucy,
Pain has helped ground me at times when things felt overwhelming. Pain has also brought me closer to dommes/girlfriends as it helps me soften and let go of the vigilance that I so often carry through life. This helps us form a deeper connection, through both the calm and the post-beating endorphins.

I’ve joked about how only someone who cares about me would hurt me in such a way, but I do think there’s a vulnerability on the part of the top, as well, and I want to reward that by showing her my willingness to suffer.