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Hi Lucy,
Pain has helped ground me at times when things felt overwhelming. Pain has also brought me closer to dommes/girlfriends as it helps me soften and let go of the vigilance that I so often carry through life. This helps us form a deeper connection, through both the calm and the post-beating endorphins.

I’ve joked about how only someone who cares about me would hurt me in such a way, but I do think there’s a vulnerability on the part of the top, as well, and I want to reward that by showing her my willingness to suffer.